Friday, September 4, 2009

:: threatened abortion ::

first and foremost, thank you to all for the well wishes. pardon me for being unable to say thank you personally to each one of you.

past few days have been hectic. coming home late, attending the boys needs while fasting really take a toll on this 8 weeks pregnant lady. yesterday, after a long drive to and fro kl-kelang, with heavy traffic and so, i saw spotting when i was about to perform my asr prayers. i remain calm, continue with shower and solat. once done, head upstairs and looked up for mom and asked for their time to send me to the hospital for check up.

since it was near iftar, it made more sense to break the fast first and then head to the hospital. after iftar and maghrib prayers, dad and mom drove me to hosp for check up, and i was wheeled to the emergency room. i was diagnosed with threatened abortion and was admitted for 8 hrs observation.

first time in my life ever, i have to manage my own admission to ward since OH is not around. it's kinda sad, sbb ada patient lain with same case ada husband kat sebelah giving continuous support while me alone, (and yet gaduh lagi with OH due to some things).

i tried to put myself to sleep that night, and syukur the bleed has stopped. this morning, the dr did an ultrasound on my stretch-marked tummy, and syukur again, the baby's heart is beating. i was discharged with dr's reminder to take things slower and tto minimize movement as much as possible. i am now under hospitalization leave for 2 weeks (that means i am on raya hols already). have to be very careful with myself, as i really want this baby.

at the moment, i have to surrender afiq and adib to mom for her to look after especially at nights. i just hope and pray that mom will be fit and healthy as i know mom is not so well either.

anyway, i've some persoalaan agama here, and hope if any of my readers could advise me on this matter. should i skip my fast for the fear of losing my baby, do i have to pay fidyah? as i think i've come accross that matter somewhere but i'm not really sure. hope anyone could lend me an answer.

thank you again to all my well wishers. please don't take it hard if i can't thank you personally. take care. and happy fasting

8 comments:

hailmi said...

alhamdulillah the baby is still ok..semoga akak n baby terus sihat..be strong kak..

Missy eLLe said...

along, ustaz penah ckp, kalau skip puasa sebab takut ilang baby kene fidyah and ganti

kalau takut kesihatan diri, ganti je.

in other words, have faith in Allah. keep it steady ya.

ps: i have a new blog :)

SUNFLOWER said...

salam sha..re to saifulislam.com on bab wanita hamil & menyusukan anak --> risaukan diri sendiri - qadha', risaukan diri sendiri & anak - qadha' & risaukan anak - qadha' & fidyah...take care ye =)

sheri said...
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:: kay dora :: said...

take care sha!

Suraya Mohamed said...

sha..take care yer..:)

rujuk ustaz & ustazah..as far as I know kene ganti & bayar fidyah...btw..nana ppun expecting jgk...due mac I think...happy for u guys...

P/s..waa...x balik raya...sob2..

nazihahkamaruddin said...

sis... kalau rasa tak larat sangat x perlulah teruskan berpuasa... wanita hamil adalah golongan yang dibenarkan berbuka puasa... bab fidyah tu kena bayar kalau sha tak puasa hanya kerana risaukan kesihatan baby semata2... kalau risaukan kedua2 baby dan ibu... or ibu sahaja... cuma kena ganti.. without fidyah... puasa selang sehari pun ok lah.. itupun kalau sha larat... sedangkan akak yang larat ni pun... dr suruh skip puasa for some days sbb berat tak naik langsung.. takut effect pada baby.. especially brain... padahal akak dah lepas critical period.. sha masih baru lagikan.. masih dlm critical trimester... just be careful dear...

undomesticwifey said...

Yup sha, kalau risau sebab baby semata kena bayar fidyah. But in your case, you should just take a break Sha. At least selang sehari ke puasa..Nanti kita ganti pose sesama eh?? *hint bahawa aku tak berjaya puasa penuh tahun ni* hiks.